Sometimes along the way life events shatter our confidence and who we are as a person and this is an issue I've been struggling with and I'm realizing that I spend way to much time and energy trying to please others and worrying about how people perceive me and wanting everyone to like me and treat me the way I would treat them in the non judgment and accepting way...but that is not always the case ...I find it to be really draining at times...
My good friend told me something the other day that stuck with me she said ''You need to remember that the only thing you need to be responsible for in life is yourself, and as long as you are happy with the person you have become, that is all that really matters. People will always form opinions and judgments of you... Just remember, you are beautiful, smart, compassionate, and a wonderful friend and person, and that you have so much to offer this world and anyone who gets to know the true you should feel privileged''... this totally touched my heart and made me realize I've gotta let go and live for myself and focus all that energy on more important and positive things...So today is a new day and the rebuilding begins...
